Walking in another person’s shoes doesn’t mean literally. Walking in another’s shoes is to actually listen to them, empathize with them, gain a love, understanding, and passion for that other individual life. I feel we tend to look away because it is the easy thing to do especially when selfish thoughts is all that lingers in mind. How do I become rich? How do I get to the next level? What kind of car will I buy? What kind of shoes am I going to buy? Stepping in another’s shoes is very hard because this is something that I try to do because the feeling that you gain cannot be compared to the feeling that you possessed before taking that opportunity to listen, understand, and challenge who you are as a person.

Up in the Capitol CCY fights for individuals who walk  in many shoes, and tries to listen to the youth that need to be understood. CCY, I believe, is getting those stories out into the world and is giving LAW MAKERS an opportunity to be challenged. Law makers will have the opportunity to listen to others, empathize and be understanding – in other words, walk in others’ shoes, which may result in sore feet and even missing toes.

Healthy Relationships can be built from the ground on up. Communication and understanding are the keys to creating that atmosphere of having a healthy relationship. When a relationship becomes unhealthy, big decisions must be contemplated. But when making that decision or thinking about it, how many times do we say forever and really mean it - especially when our identity is challenged by the one’s we are in a relationship with. When we are challenged to unconditional care go out the window. Just because we are not within a relationship anymore doesn’t mean that you don’t exist, there is just a need for distance so that people can be healthy. That person that you have built a relationship with has taken from you part of who you are because of the growth and that is something to think about.

I dont know why this is on my mind but it may be because as CCY’s conference comes about, are we will be looking to build connections or relationships and this is the responsibility of both parties.

Something on my mind and there is always more to come.

As we live there is always going to be someone trying to live right beside up us, ahead of us, or even behind us but there is always going to be someone trying to pursue this journey to a certain point in time so that a self definition is then established. When do we know that we are at that point when do we know that we are at the destination of fulfillment.  People are what drive the world and with that every individual that take part in the creation of our tomorrow has a responsiblity to the person beside then because the moment that you gift to someone else could be the moment in which definition of what we see as bad, evil, no good start to stand over the good that can come from what moment could bring into someones life.

I feel strong about the fact that we all play a part in this world and it greater than we know because some of us like to live in the now but neglect that the now is everything. My now is all that could be influence by my writing. Whether they like it or not my know is you and my yesterday is knowledge that could be brought into this moment for us to share with greater purpose.

There will be more to come…………

HOME!!!!

A person who guards, protects, and preserves. A person who is entrusted by law with the care of the person or property, or both, of another, as a minor or someone legally incapable of managing his or her own affairs.

GUARDIAN!!!!

To treat in a harmful, injurious, or offensive way and to speak insultingly, harshly, and unjustly to or about.

ABUSE!!!!

HOME, GUARDIAN, ABUSE redefined

The place in which no longer exists. For now wondering in a state of hopelessness leads me to a dead end.

Who will help me find a HOME?!!!!

But I will not go back to the one in which I came because I wasn’t safe and will not be safe so please someone take me keep me away from the ABUSE!!!!

Who will I trust to find me a HOME and keep me from ABUSE when the person I trusted was suppose to be the one who hold to the standard of a GUARDIAN!!!!

With the home of myself as I stand within my temple my place of being I feel Homeless because I have nothing around me that is keeping me SAFE from the evils that hungers for a mind like mine.

Vulnerable and Weak

Why must it be me?

Some of life’s catastophes are preventable, some are not. Indulging in self destructive behavior, like addiction or abusive relationships, can be reversed. But what about circumstances beyond your control? How can you predict that your company is going to downsize you out of a job? Or that an earthquake or flood will leave you homeless? Or that your spouse will die? Whether you are facing a crisis of your own making or one that was thrust upon you, Visioning wokrs. Acquiring the habit of listening to you heart and giving voice to your creative conscience is a great survival strategy, enabling you to design and build the life you want with the pieces that life has given you.” Visionig by Lucia Capacchione

Even though things happen and there will have to be some time set aside for reflection and induring pain. That is understandable but it is not a place where you want to remain. Everyone will go through something tragic in there life. Some will have little to no clue how to cop. There is something called hope and faith. Everyone has a mission on this earth and all that is around you are instrument to guide you along the path. You are the master of your fate. You are the conqueror of your soul. You control your happiness. It is really hard to think in terms of visioning when tragedy is of the essence, but you can! There is a message always given when things happen. You must trust yourself, that it is going to be ok. Because you are a living instrument put on this earth for a purpose, so take that and run. Take time to take care of yourself with healthy ways in mind. Think, the world wouldn’t be complete with out you, for you are a key element to the rotation of the world while you are on your journey.

“Fleyet”

IS ME.

Bloggin

This poem is something that I came up with as of Sunday August 1st, 2010. I am sitting in an airport awaiting my flight and listening music to be inspired. This poem comes is what comes to my mind.

It is true that sometime when we are born in a situation, a negative one at that, we see the world as that. Especially when the world out side of the one seen to us is not as welcoming. There needs to be a connection. There needs to be someway to build a bridge from one side to the other. But that is hard to do because there will need to be security and some large payoff to show even to take step on that bridge. Where have we come from as a people and where will we be if we drop the ball on giving our future and opportunity to shine.

We are leaving out kids in uneducated school to fail, not giving them the role models they need, not giving them a safe place to go when they come from an unsafe place at home, not giving them the resource to settle there hunger for food. Yes there are people worst off but where do we start to make the change. Why must entertainment, NFL, and or  NBA be more important? Because these are the things  we give more interest. Sad to say we even do this we have nothing just to keep up with the GATES. I am going to do what I can to get my kids to fight because this is what they are going to have to do to make it.

Thanks to us this is what we have chosen for our future. When will it stop.

Bloggin Out

Peace,

CCY Always Jevon